Sexual Desire and Gender in this article it mentioned that “some people will have sex only if they are positively in love, for fun or just to satisfy their desires.” I believe what you do sexually is your business. How often you choose to have sex, whom you choose to be sexually active with is nobody’s concern. No one has the right to judge you, threatened you or make fun of you. But people are driven to judge and to be ignorant towards the things they don’t know and understand. Each and every one of us has been taught different morals, values and beliefs. I was taught not to have sexual relationship until I am married and not to have children out of wed-lock. Although, my life did not go that way as my parents taught me; does that make me a bad, slutty and promiscuous person? No, I believe things happened because of my own irrational decisions. The choices I made at the time were bad choices and now I learned from the mistakes and apply it to my everyday life.
Some people may be sexually active and are called hyper sexual or even a nympho, but these people may have an illness that they don’t know they have. I don’t judge a book by its cover, so I definitely don’t judge people before I get to know them. I teach my children that nobody is perfect; there are all types of flaws out there as the same with peer pressure. I tell my kids to never think irrationally and to be a leader and make the right decisions without the pressure and bad influences from your friends and family.
